RE: my story of 39

I can't say in every case but generally that is likely your husband trying to get your attention and letting you know he is around and watching over you.

The reason you see it so much is so that when you find the answer you will realize the entire time he was trying to let you know hes alive and well. It isn't a coincidence that you mentioned who it made you think of.

One thing people don't realize about the spirit world is they see our thoughts and desires, and they will at times guide us in subtle ways to see what they wish to show us if we are open to it.

I recommend sober mindedness of course to draw only good spirits :)

In this case I am 90% sure its mostly about your husband who passed, at least at this time. You can be sure hes trying to contact you this way. I can't say it means any more than that. Most people miss those they love that have passed on. Just realize that his mind and body on the other side are just as functional if not more so there than here.

Death is only a door, not a true end. If as you say he was a decent and good man, then all the happier he is on the other side.
My only instruction is to value the time you still have here, because just as there is a reason he is on the other side now, there is also a reason you are still here! :)

Eventually you will see him again. You can feel fortunate to remember him so well and realize though a part of your journey with him ended, another in a sense - already began.